Blinking, we can never get ourselves free from this natural
instinct. Unknowingly we do love to shut our lids, we like to rub them and yes,
we do like to take a nap. Apart from these, we do close our eyes during high
emotional moments. Some might notice it, some might not have bothered to care
about it, but the fact is like giving a response to some stimuli, we all
express our inner feelings to our very own self at first.
Its human nature, that one loves to express his/her happiness,
sorrow, pain or any other feeling to oneself at the very first place. He does
this by closing his eyes. While he closes his eyes, he gets this feeling of
isolation. He feels that no one in this entire planet is able to notice him,
his hidden grieves or emotions. He can thereby share his own sentiments and
feelings to himself without being intervened by someone.
When in fear he closes his eyes, he thinks that the danger
has got over. No one can harm him as nobody can watch him. In this case, he is
actually telling his heart his story of fear. He is sharing it with himself.
And this act slowly diminishes his fear and makes him stand up again.
When in distress he closes his eyes, he thinks that the act
which made him sad is just not real. He starts imagining the reality as a
dream. As nobody can see him in this state of mind, he feels damn free to
rejuvenate himself. He silently shed tears while sharing his piece of story to
his heart. And after sometime he feels so light and painless that he opens
himself up in front of his closed ones and then on he is ready to move on with
a smile on.
Again when in deep pain he closes his eyes, he thinks of his
loved ones who may not be present with them but if would have been there with
him, could have taken a good care of his. He just needs their words of care,
touch of love and the feeling of being loved and cared. He shares his pain to
his heart while closing his eyes, and after some moments he gets back to
normal. Even though his pain may not have got lessen, but now as he has shared
his pain to his heart, he knows how to withstand it.
Now these above circumstances were all related to sorrows
and grieve. Now he, the human, also does the same sort of activities even when
in extreme happiness.
When in love he closes his eyes, he thinks of his lover. He
imagines himself along with his lover in a complete wonderland where there is
only the two enjoying their cozy moments with each other. No rules and
restrictions are there to prevent them from expressing their love for each
other. Even while sharing his love story rather his true love feelings for her,
he tells his heart even those things which he badly wants to express to his
lover but just couldn’t make it possible. So while sharing this to his own
heart he feel relaxed as someone other than his mind knows his actual
condition.
And lastly when in super happy mode he closes his eyes, he
thinks of the entire world happily singings songs and cherishing his joy. He
may not have let anyone know about his happiness, but he just can’t stop
sharing this to his heart. He let every single reason of his happiness get
known to his heart and soul. He points towards reliving each and every moment
so that even in distress, he never feels detached from joy.
There are many more situations when we do share our thoughts
and feelings to our very own heart by just closing our mere eyes. We all like
to hide ourselves from the entire world in any extreme emotional moment that we
come across, but we rarely do notice it.
Your heart shares your part of story because it does care.
I think blinking is the most frequent reflex action. Thank you for sharing this.
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Thanks a lot for commntn...well i just tried to portray this reflex action in a bit deeper way... :)
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