Girls vs Guys (Part 2)

My last note *Girls vs Guys (Part 1)* was completely based on friendship, but this one is in regards to the participation of both girls and guys in so called girlfriend-boyfriend (read love) relationship.

The relationship which I’m talking here doesn’t hold the casual relationships which we commit on a regular basis, but it’s more on the so called *True Love* type relationship between a girl and a guy. The 11 points which I’m going to mention may not hold much truth, but according to my experiences I’m expressing what I’ve learnt.

1. A guy feels a bit reluctant in accepting his relationship status whereas a girl dies to disclose it.
2. For a guy, friends are equally, rather more important than his girlfriend, but for a girl her boyfriend is everything she needs.
3. A guy will make lame excuses for not meeting but a girl will create loads of excuses just to see him once.
4. A guy usually find his partner to be boring/annoying after a certain period of time, but a girl will always found her guy to be interesting and attractive.
5. A guy hardly means/feels while telling those three magical words (yep…its *I Love You*), but a girl do feel.
6. For a guy, being romantic mostly means to have sex, but a girl has loads of imaginations/dreams attached with this *Romanticism*.
7. A guy may fail to speak for hours, but a girl has always plenty to talk with the man she loves.
8. A guy can easily express his love with the help of few words which may not be true always whereas a girl usually express her love with unspoken words.
9. For a guy, it’s easy to show his sorrow and dislikes but a girl believes in silence, sacrifice and adjustment.
10. A guy believes in taking revenge, but a girl mostly tends to forget his mistakes.
11. Guys may find their friend’s girl better than their own in terms of looks/understanding/adjustment/care/etc. But for a girl, her man is the best in this entire planet.

Well I’m mentioning it again that these points are completely based on my observation, it may be wrong also. Its only you people who can judge it in a better way. 

Love ya all…

Girls vs Guys (Part 1)

Well, I was thinking about what men can do and women can’t for quite a few days (obviously a movie effect :P ). And guess what? At last I got my answer which I’m going to share with you all.

I have seen as well as experienced loads of friendship with loads of people. And I can proudly say that the friendship that is shared between two guys can never (exceptions forbidden) be matched with that being shared between a guy and a girl or between two girls.

Well these are 11 common points which shows a guy is way better than a girl as far as friendship is concerned. It’s a general concept which I’m sharing, exceptions are definitely forbidden.

1. I have seen a guy crying for his friend; well I have also seen a girl crying for her friend, but a guy sheds his tears silently whereas a girl never cries sitting alone for her friend.
2. A guy never expects his friend to call/text him all day long, neither does he expects to get a reply from him instantly over the phone. A girl does expect. If their expectations aren’t fulfilled then quarreling is the next step she takes.
3. 10 days without a single talk, the friendship between two guys doesn’t get weak. But in 10 days, a girl can make another friend who can replace you.
4. Guys never put any boundaries or limitations for their friend, but a girl will always teach you how to live life *her way*.
5. A guy won’t inspect his friend’s loyalty, but a girl will do it, at every step.
6. A guy won’t fake in front of his friend, but there are lots of possibilities that a girl will fake.
7. A guy may borrow his friend’s money, but a girl doesn’t need to borrow it. They think his money is their very own and they have every right on it.
8. Two guys in deep friendship will definitely not fall in love (if not gay), but a girl falls for her guy friend if he has all the qualities she wants to be in her man.
9. A guy doesn’t expect his friend to be much caring and all, but a girl does.
10. A guy can share his friend with other friends, but a girl can’t.
11. And lastly, a girl can never be called as a *chaddi baddy*.

Well, my observations can definitely be wrong, I just wrote what’s on my mind. You all can judge it in a better way. Love ya all…

Issues in Life

Loads of issues, loads of problems…!!! No one responsible and no one to solve…We got to have our own balls to make every problem get solved smoothly…You better take your own decision rather than relying on somebody else…!!! Blame no one, its only you who is responsible for all the things that takes place in your life…Remember one thing, never regret in life …!!! Your decision wasn’t wrong…It was the best one according to you at that time…Your way of making your decision correct can be wrong though…So never lose hope, there are other ways also…Go for it…!!!

We have got one life…one life to live…!!! Few years have passed and few are left… None of you would ever want your life to become a venue of pain and sorrow…So why are you wasting your precious time being sad? Don’t you have the sense that the more time you spend being sad is the less time you get to stay happy? Change your routine, change your status…Change the fucking World around you…!!! Move out, freak out, and dance like you never danced…!!! Feel the essence of your life, mark your passion and go for it…Not much time left to fulfill your aim…

Sadness, depression and problems are the most attractive states…!!! Beware of them…These can eat up your happy go lucky life and can even turn it into a desert…!!! So run…run for life…!!! Smile without any reason, make weirdy looks…!!! Grab attention and make yourself feel special…!!! And I must tell you, you are special…Its just you haven’t realized your true talent…Give yourself some time…Think about yourself…Love yourself…!!! Loving yourself will make you love life…Spread love, shower love…That should be the motto of your life...

Random thoughts - II

While sitting on a chair in the balcony under the full moon, a simple question strokes my mind. Is expecting “time” from your beloved ones wrong? The simple one word answer to this question would always be “no”. But this is not the one I want to hear.

Expecting time means expecting to spend a quality time, share a heartfelt conversation, sharing happiness as well as sadness. Expecting time means expecting to share a part of their respective lifes with each other, showing the importance of one person in another person’s life.

Sometimes it happens that the one whom you consider to be your loved one or your best friend don’t consider you the same. It hurts! But we need to be practical as there’s no such prerequisite conditions in friendship. One has his own choices and feelings. Someone once said to me, “You must keep one thing in mind from the very first day that friendship is not a give ‘n’ take relationship. You should not expect any customized responses from anyone. Let them be what they prefer to be”. At that point of time I didn’t really understood his saying, but now I can understand or rather feel what he wanted to convey. You must love your friends the way they are, not the way you want them to be. Otherwise it won’t be called a friendship rather it will be known as adjustment between you two.

But at the same time you must inform your friend about your feelings, about your desires and then if he/she does make any changes in themselves then it’s perfectly fine. That means your friend considers you an integral part of their life and wants you to be happy. Communication is the best solution to any misunderstanding or any other problem in a relationship. But you should never superimpose your desires on anyone; let them perform actions according to their wish.

So expecting “time” from your friend is not wrong. But you have to understand their situations if they don’t stand up to your expectations. “Time” is not the ultimate measure for your friendship. Problems are many but solutions are few. Search them until you succeed. So don’t give up, a ray of hope will rise in the next morning. Till then have a good night.