Love vs Infatuation

Due to a special request from someone close to my heart I’ve written this piece of comparison between love and infatuation. We come across them at a daily basis. Some love their friends, girl/boyfriends and others whereas some get themselves busy in infatuating certain people around them.

Well the following eleven points just came up in my mind while thinking about this topic. I’m obvious that these points are bound to create controversies and I’m definitely not correct with most of my points. This is just what I felt, do forgive my mistakes.

1. You will love to love your lover even if he/she breaks your heart but in case of infatuation you will fear to fall again.
2. Your love becomes the sole reason of your day long smile but when its infatuation, you believe in day dreaming rather imagining loads of realistic things.
3. Love can't happen with a mere glance of him/her, but with a single chat session infatuation may happen.
4. Love needs time to grow, the more you get to know your partner the more chances to fall in love with him/her, whereas infatuation works way faster than love.
5. Love is never volatile, but infatuation is very much volatile in most of the cases.
6. Love is unconditional; you don't expect your partner to work in accordance to your wish. but when its infatuation, as the day passes you discover your desire in changing some features of your partner.
7. Your love for someone can never be described in words, but the love that can be explained on papers is known as infatuation.
8. Love needs no qualities, it just happens but in case of infatuation there must be something that attracts you towards your partner that may be display features, charm etc.
9. When you love someone truly, misunderstandings are bound to happen. You're bound to feel lost, unattended and all and you feel free to share them all. But when in infatuation, even if you get hurt badly, you don't let him/her know about your feelings coz you fear to lose him/her.
10. When its love, you don't need to talk/meet all day long to maintain your feelings. Even if you don't share the same city, your feelings aren’t going to diminish. But in case of infatuation, even a small gap of communication can lead to separation.
11. You are bound to lose your heart in love, but in infatuation, you will definitely lose your mind.

These all are craps, bunk my mistakes. :P

But yeah, do give these points a chance of becoming a thought in your mind. :-)

Love ya all… J